RANT!! :why do ladies stoop so low?

WHY DO LADIES BELITTLE THEMSELVES??? 

This is purely a female matter! 

 

THE MARRIED OR NOT SO MARRIED GIRLFRIEND 

So you have a boyfriend, yes we don't have a problem with  that.  The problem starts  when you start acting wifely.  No matter how old or how mature you think you are, don't act a wife  when your bride price haven't been paid! 

Yes you're 'of age' but your boyfriend or fiance can see that.  If u want to be a wife or if he wants you in his kitchen with dinner plates and cutlery at hand,  he should marry you the proper way! 

Then there is the matter of young girlfriends. You're just 19 for  God's sake! 

And you're already cooking his meals and doing his laundry every other weekend.  His friends see you enter his room and hail "our wife" and you think he is definitely gonna Marry you.. Babe, there is definitely gonna be another babe for him after you so don't stress it.  No I'm not hating I'm just trying to help  you open your eyes

TWITTER ANONS!!! 

We all love money. No one is judging you for that. But shouldn't you stop to think about where all that money and gifts are coming from?

If he couldn't find you and talk to you and get to know you first and all he wants to do is spoil you with expensive stuff,  darling it won't last but enjoy it while it lasts. If he finally asks you to come for a meet up please humbly go since he is the source of that pretty wig your head is carrying.

HOUSEWIFE 

I'm in no position to judge but why would anyone even want to be a full housewife? In these times? 

 Agreed you're a house wife and yet you get angry because your husband doesn't give you enough money to cater for the house and the children. You're not contributing to the income of the family but you're quick to complain that the children don't have clothes for Christmas and new year and your make up is almost finished, mummy,  use clay!!! 

Then when the teacher asks your 5year old daughter what does your mother do for a living and she replies "mummy stays at home and cooks" you'll complain that the teacher is irresponsible for asking such a question.

Please give your husband rest and stop scrolling through his phone at night and asking him who every every lady on his contact list is. 

FEMALE BREADWINNER!!! 

If you're married I personally don't think it's wrong if ure the main breadwinner after all it's your marriage, but GIRLFRIENDS!!! 

What is wrong with 21st century born girls?? He claims to love you and boom you start sponsoring all is activities. His data you buy,  Netflix subscription you're there.  "babe I need some money I'm chilling with the boys tonight and drinks are on me" and boom your handover your credit card!! 

The when he breaks up with you your run to your friends crying  "after all I've done for him"  Relationships are about give and take please. You should have noticed you were the only one giving 

BILLERS!!!

Your boyfriend isn't your husband.  He is probably collecting pocket money from his parents too, don't kill him.  He loves you doesn't mean all your bills must be on him.  Yes he could take you out and maybe pay for a few things  but don't dump all your problems on him

Ladies!!!  We're worth more don't stoop too low!!!